Friday 28 December 2018

Why Setting Goals In A Relationship Is Important.

December 28, 2018 65 Comments


Today, setting personal goals are more common than setting goals in a relationship. It can most often be effective to plan along side your partner whom you share your life with. Can you imagine how your life would be cluttered if you didn't know what to do with it or if you didn't plan effectively? No one like a messy life so why would anyone like a messy relationship? I mean, your relationship is your life.

What Are Goals?

According to Wikipedia,a goal is an idea of the future or desired result that a person or a group of people envisions, plans and commits to achieve. People endeavor to reach goals within a finite time by setting deadlines. 

Though, goals can either be long-term or short-term.

What Are Long-Term Goals?

 A long-term goal is something you want to accomplish in the future. Long-term goals require time and planning. They are not something you can do this week or even this year. Long-term goals are usually at least several years away. Sometimes it takes many steps to complete a long-term goal. (ext from MyMnCareers)

What Are Short-Term Goals?

A short-term goal is something you want to accomplish soon. Short-term goals can help you make big changes. A short-term goal is something you want to do in the near future. The near future can mean today, this week, this month, or even this year. (ext from MyMnCareers)

Why Setting Goals In A Relationship Is Important.

 My boyfriend is a BIG planner and I never realized how necessary planning your daily life in a relationship could be, especially when you live with that person. I was more the type of person who would wait on the appointed time to do things. I noticed how stressed it makes not only me but both of us when I/we dont plan. Like forgetting an appointment, missing special dates and just speaking out plans in the air and forgetting them a day after.

  I then realized I needed to start planning life and goals with my boyfriend more effectively. What are the things we want to do today, this month, this year? How will we go about achieving these goals? 

I gave it some deep thought and went straight to the computer and created a Goal Planner for both of us which I can say helped! Things went a bit more effective and it felt like him and I were achieving the things we planned if not working busy working on them together.

Since I blog mostly about relationships, I figured that if  I was once in this situation many others out there could possibly need this just as I/we did. I went to work again and curated one just for you and your love.

Couples Monthly Goal Planner

https://kemaltonesbeth.blogspot.com/p/store.html

 The Monthly Goal Planner contains a full year. You have the option of downloading it to your phone or computer and getting a little creative by printing it out and attaching it to your refridgerator or a view board.

https://kemaltonesbeth.blogspot.com/p/store.html 

On the other hand you can grab your freebie along side that. Grab your free printable of Strengthening Your Romance in 20 Days right here! Who doesn't like free stuff? Not me! and I bet not you too!

Sunday 9 December 2018

10 Text Messages To Send To Your Partner In A Long Distance Relationship.

December 09, 2018 54 Comments






Being on a distance is never the easiest. It can bedaunting when there are days where you just wish your love one was under the very same roof as you are while possibly laying or sitting exactly beside you. Luckily, technology exists and we can communicate with our love ones from the farthest of distance by voice calling, video chatting and/or text messaging.

As I am in a long distance relationship that functions really well I can say ( thank God), I will provide you with ten (10)  simple, cute and loving texts you can send to your partner that can help to make their day feel more meaningingful and perhaps to get the feeling of them being close to you.

Here goes! 😍

1. “Hey babe, I woke up with you on my mind this morning (as always). What’s up?” 

2. “I miss you so much and I can’t stop thinking about you!❤️”

3. “No ocean, sky or distance will ever come between the love that I have for you.”

4. “Tonight I’ll be dreaming of you. I really hope you’ll be dreaming of me too.”


5. “Today could have almost been the best day if you were here.”

6. “I’m such a lucky person to have you in my life.”

7. “This distance comes with pain and tears but in the end our love will conquer it all.”

8. “Can’t wait for you to tell me all about your day, I miss you so much!”

9. “You’re the last person I think about before I go to bed and the first person I think about when I wake up.”

10. “I Love You ❤️”



Related Article: The Truth About Communication In A Long Distance Relationship.


One might find  these texts  weird or maybe corny but when you’re on a different side of the world from your partner it can make there day feel really complete.

Always try to put in that extra effort to make your love one know that he/she is a priority.

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text messages to send in a long distance relationship





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