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Sunday, 10 June 2018

15 Ways To Know That A Girl Likes You

June 10, 2018 2 Comments
 Hello Hello to my fellow readers! Yes I know, it's been a while! Damn, it  actually feels forever now when I am writing this post! 

  I have however updated on my Instagram snap story about 2 weeks ago that I would have done a post in June. I took a break in May mainly due to technical issues that I was having with my blog also, I was learning more about the blogging world while I waited to get these issues resolved. You guys have been patient and I appreciate that sooo much! *kisses*

 Now lets get into business shall we? Yep! 

 On my last post I wrote about 15 Ways To Know That A Guy Likes You and I promised my fellow male readers that I would also do 15 Ways to know that a girl is into them. Aaand, I kept my promise! *CHEERS* 
 The thing is, when I actually gave this topic a thought I realised that "the ways" didn't differ much between men and women, they related quite more than I had expected. Now, gentle men, here are your 15 ways!






  1. She blink her eyes... alot!- This you would notice if you are still in the flirting stage. Females are most likely to do this as a sign that she like what she sees and is really digging you.
  2. She twirls/plays with her hair.- A typical romantic flirty movie gesture but let me tell you that we as female actually do this in real life! Haha girls can be weird ;)
  3. She tries to do her best with her dressing and attire when you both plan a meet/date.
  4. She smiles and shows her pearly whites to light up the room and your heart.
  5. Shy! She suddenly becomes that shy girl when she's in your company. Nothing is wrong with that, as long as you make her feel more comfortable as time goes she will loosen up eventually.
  6. She texts you first! It is more common that girls wait for the guy to text them first but not realizing that the guys also can appreciate the girl putting forward the same gesture.
  7. She remains fully attentive and find interest in the topics which you speak on. 
  8. She ask you a ton of questions! Man, if she's inquisitive she's interested!
  9. If she is always interested to know how your day went, if you have eaten etc, then she could be a win win!
  10. She wants to meet your friends and family. That's alright as it shows a big sign of interest in you and the people who are a part of your life.  I know males can be a bit keen on the timing of which he let a girl meet his friends and relatives especially.
  11. She encourages you to meet her friends and family also.
  12. The random calls are also an eye opener. 😉
  13. She plans/asks about the next date or next time seeing you!
  14. She blushes when you compliment her.
  15. A girl who is interested in a guy tries to remember all the little details you tell her, whether it's important and not. If she remembers all the little things she definitely likes you.
 So guys I hope my pointers actually gave you some pespective. If  it did, leave a comment and if it didn't, still leave a comment. Thanks so much for reading and I'll see you on my next post!

Bye!🎔


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Sunday, 18 March 2018

KNOW YOUR WORTH! (How Do You Know Your Worth?)

March 18, 2018 1 Comments

Upon talking with a friend recently, I could not help but make this topic my next blog post. 

It's so surreal that there are actually women out there who are lost, unsure of what their worth really is. The fact that she is a friend and I value my friends, I felt that it was only respectful and the right thing to do to listen, evaluate, be non-judgmental and give her my best honest advice.

How Do you Know Your Worth



While she voiced her story to me, I said to her "Know your worth." Lost and saddened she was, she hit me back with the question "How do I know my worth?" 
I smiled after receiving her question. A smile of sympathy, a smile of empathy. I told her to ask herself; How do I see myself as a person? and How do I expect a man or someone else to see me as that said person? 

The thing is, she is not the only one who is struggling with knowing her worth. Both men and women is very likely to come across this phase in life where they are left to question their own values. However, I believe this is more common among us women. 

"We cannot think of being acceptable to others until we have first proven acceptable to ourselves."

Struggling to find your worth can be based on a few things like:

•Past experiences you've had with someone you dated or possible a friend/family member.
•Your outlook on yourself as a person •CONFIDENCE. 

If you can relate to any of those pointers (especially your confidence level) then it's no surprise you are having difficulties with knowing and accepting your worth. Look at yourself in the mirror, take a moment to pause, breathe calmly and think.  
“As long as you look for someone else to validate who you are by seeking their approval, you are setting yourself up for disaster. You have to be whole and complete in yourself. No one can give you that. You have to know who you are - what others say is irrelevant.”

Try to find all the qualities in yourself, accept them and embrace them. Learn to love yourself. Self love is sufficient. If you don't love yourself, no one else will. If you don't accept yourself for who you are inside and out, no one else will. 

So, do you know your worth?

In a nutshell, my advice to you is; if you are struggling with this it’s best to start by doing some self evaluation. Find all the good things in you; quality over quantity. Love yourself. Keep your chin up. Smile. 

And if you are in a relationship, once you embrace all these pointers, your worth will become so clear to your partner. He/she will respect you and know where you stand as a person. 

-Dedicated to a friend ❤️
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Monday, 12 February 2018

Valentine's Day Tips For Him.

February 12, 2018 1 Comments
It's that time of the year again when couples look toward to the 14th of February. The day or red roses, chocolates, teddy bears and love ❤️

If you are one of those girls who like Valentine's Day as much as me, then you probably should check this out.

As for my personal plans this year, I am really just looking forward to a cozy day with my partner. I have already told him no gifts and I held no expectations for any, especially when he make most of my days feel like Valentine's Day.

Now for you my dearest ladies, here are some Valentines Day tip for your love:

1. The Perfect Date.
Thinking of the perfect date can be so complex than it actually is. As long as you know your partner well enough this should be somewhat of an easy fix. Try asking yourself questions like, what does he like? What does he dislike? What have he been talking about the most these past months? What does he like to do? Etc. With all these questions you can ask yourself, eventually you will come up with a great date idea!



2. The Perfect Gift.
We thought the perfect date was challenging but what about the perfect gift? Geez! How hard can this be sometimes! But the same thought as above may apply to the gif. Knowing your partner enough can help you to figure it out. Know his likes and dislikes. Most importantly you don't want to shop him something that he doesn't need or has any use for. Try to think a little out of the box. Watches and things like that are a little out dated if you ask me and I believe it is for men also. Most often that's what they think girls will shop them so that takes away the element of surprise from the gift.

3. Make A Splendid Dinner
Sometimes the pocket can be a little budgeted but you still want to make this day special. Making a fantastic dinner is one way to show and give some valentine atmosphere to your partner. Cook his favorite meal why don't you? And maybe add something a bit extra this time. Light up some candles, dim the lights, play some cozy low music in the background and let him enjoy his favorite meal you made while having a wonderful time together.

4. What To Wear On The Date
This is all your choice. It's a typical stigma that people should wear red or red and white on Valentine's Day but it is all up to your own preference. Depending on the type of date, then you might want to dress accordingly. With a simple example, if you will be watching Fifty Shades Freed then you might want to dress a bit chic or casual or semi-casual. Or if it's a dinner date at fancy restaurant then you're thinking more elegant, heels and that dashingly glorious red lipstick 😉 However, you will definitely know what goes best as to what date you'll be going on!

5. Take A Romantic Walk
You could add this as a part of the planned date or even do it separately. You get to know your partner a little more when you walk or stroll with him. Go out and have a romantic walk. Talk, smile, laugh, feel and embrace the moment!
6. Re-live Your First Date
This is something I would personally do. Why not try to bring your first date back to life? Maybe you two have memories from that special day that you can never forget or never stop talking about. Then this would be the perfect chance to re-live it once more. If your first date wasn't all that, then maybe somewhere down the line you shared a good one? Still, it is not a problem to re-live that one also.

7. Don't Expect Too Much.
The fact that you probably will be shopping your boyfriend a gift doesn't mean he necessarily will be shopping you one also. So you just might want to be a little reserved and humble on this day. Don't be regretful about getting him a gift if he didn't get you one or if your gift costs less than his. It is the thought that always counts. The fact that he is with you on Valentine's Day or even if he is miles away and still give you that Valentine's affection, that alone should give you some reassurance.

8. He Doesn't Like Valentine's Day
As disappointing as it may sound, it's no big deal. Everyone has their dislikes and is entitled to it and it is something you have to respect as his partner. There are ways in which you could work around it out of respect for him. Maybe you can give yourself a girl treat by doing a manicure or pedicure also *wink*

Since Fifty Shades Freed is trending I guess some of you will make this a Valentine's special and why not? Make this day spicy as much as you can! Just remember the champagne or wine and rose petals! ❤️

I wish you an early Happy Valentine's from me and mine to you and yours! Good luck with all!
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Tuesday, 6 February 2018

Working Too Much Can Affect Your Relationship!

February 06, 2018 0 Comments
Not only can working too much affect your relationship, it can also affect your life and your well being.




Are you that 9 to 5 person? Maybe one who works a 12 or 13 hour shift? Do you only see your partner when it's close to bedtime? Is it that you also may have difficulty seeing your partner on the weekends? Yes? Then you might want to stop for a minute, read a little more here and think.





When was the last time you got to share some quality time with your partner? If you have to think about this for more than a second, then chances are your relationship is likely to fall under. Good for you if you are one who knows how to balance both work and your relationship.






"I was one of those people who put too much emphasis on work and career and material possessions, and it took it's toll on all of my relationships, on my physical health, my emotional and mental health." -Tony Shalhoub





You happen to spend more time at work rather than more time with your partner not because work tells you to but because you chose to. You're so busy slaving one's self you don't realise the things that are happening around you or right in front of your eyes. People tend to not realise that you know more about your partner EVERYDAY and the little things he she had told you at the beginning of the relationship isn't enough for you to say "I know my partner." You could have been dating for 5 or 10 years believe me you still don't know your partner enough. Why do you think that even marriages that have been going on for a while on what seems to be a firm ground can come to an end? Of course, there will be many reasons possible to why it could end but in order to work things out with your partner, it is based on how well you know and communicate with him/her. And let me tell you, over working and spending less time with your partner does not in any way improve your communication level.





You are affecting your partner. Your partner could feel alone and wishing you were at home more often. Wishing you could wake up in the morning with him/her and not before. Maybe wanting to make a lovely dinner in the evening, light some candles and talk about one's inner self with you. But how will this happen if you're at work? 





If you do however are able to socialise with your partner on a free day, try not to talk about work too much when your life and the relationship is already 90% work. Talk about what really matters.


How many times have you both made plans but it had to be cancelled because you had to work? You might want to do this less if you don't wish for your relationship itself to be cancelled.


Restrain from bringing stress from work into the home. This is how arguments can flare up. You coming home grumpy from work because of your boss nagging you about a task deadline and your partner being stressed about you hardly being home. It happens and why wouldn't it? Try to free one's mind and not mix work with home. Moreover, don't mix work with your life.





Less work equals less stress and a better relationship! ♥
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Saturday, 3 February 2018

5 Ways To Not Let Your Past Ruin Your New Relationship.

February 03, 2018 4 Comments
"When you finally let go of the past something better comes along."
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Let's just say 2018 equals new beginnings. New self, new goals, a new partner maybe? Therefore, new expectations. Many of us have at least had shitty experiences with a person we dated in the past. In this case, I will hint on reasons why the past is the past and how to not let it block you from the new light in your new or fairly new relationship.


___1._You Need To Move On!_____

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Yes, you need to move on. And this heading will probably reach out to persons who had deep feelings for the person he/she dated previously and still haven't gotten over him/her while in their new relationship. This is an obvious blockage towards your partner in your relationship. This could also be a reason to be out of the current relationship faster than how you got out of your last. Clear your mind and give your partner the attention he or she deserves. Hang out some more and get to know him/her a little better.

___2.__Keep An Open Mind!______

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Everyone is not the same hence their will be new behaviours and different mind sets in a new relationship. Try to build that space within ones self to accept changes. Most importantly, remember that you also will be different from who your partner had dated before, so even him/her will have to accept you as a new person. Be selfless, be considerate.



_3._It Is Possible To Trust Again._

I would trust her with all my heart And would Let her trust me as well, I Respect Serious love and I take things seriously, She is cute to me in every way. I hate it that I have to Express these words But I have no choice she is away from me. And I am alone. I need To wait patiently. Like A lover should.

Your past relationship might have wrecked you to the bone. You had no trust left. Well, this is an opportunity to start over. A new book with new pages. Which means, try to start you relationship on the right page; page one, be honest and genuine. Give your partner a reason to trust you and hopefully you will get that in return. Go through a few more pages of the book to gain some certainty of the story that you both will be making. After more time spent together and talking with each other, more firm ground for trust will be built. 


_4.Don't Talk About The Past Too Much!

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Gah! That moment when you re on a date with a potential partner and most of the date time was spent talking about their EX! Your ex is called an ex for reason. It is no danger talking about your ex from time to time, but just think before speaking. Talk about what is relevant and not something that can put your potential partner down. There will be goods in a past relationship but never talk about it too much or exaggerate. Perhaps talking about the bad things from time to time can let your partner have an idea of your dislikes and will try to implement ways in which he/she can make the new relationship work better for you, for both of you. Let your partner know the ways in which your relationship together is better than the past one. That will give a little life to your relationship and reassurance.



_5. The Past Was Just A Lesson.

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Remember, everyone's experience is how one gains knowledge. Let your past be a lesson. Therefore, you will eventually know the wrongs to not carry into your new relationship and the goods to bring in. 


Thanks for stopping by and I hope my tips will be someway beneficial to you. You can find me on Instagram @golden.melannin and Twitter @Lovekemalto. Goodbye until next time!
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