It is not always the easiest to see your relationship drifting away and you can't come to the conclusion of why it is happening. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe it's you that's doing something wrong? Or maybe also you aren't doing the right things? 

Well this is where I come in to help...

Yeah, I am aware that women aren't always the easiest to understand or the easiest to satisfy, but once you've grown to know her day by day the easier it is for you to figure things out. Besides, if you have put in all the effort to get to know this girl or build the relationship then why not try to put in the effort to make it last? 

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Enough chitchatting and lets get right into it! 

8 REASONS WHY WOMEN PULL AWAY FROM A RELATIONSHIP

1. Lack Of Trust 

Without trust, a relationship is what I would call "lifeless." In order for a relationship to survive and for your girlfriend to be around longer there has to be some trust involved. Try to help her implement ways in which you think could help you to trust her more than you usually do or use to do. 

2. Unable To Communicate Well

It can become daunting for her when she tries to communicate with you but doesn't get much back in return. Try to be a bit more receptive. Always keep an open ear and verbal mouth. 

3. Too Self-Centered

If you want to push your girl more towards the relationship and not away from it, then don't make it seem as if the world revolves around you. Remember that she matters also. Make her feel that she has a purpose in the relationship. Remain curious about her and not too much about yourself. 

4. Over Analyzing Her Actions 

Not every move that she make means she's "up to something." If you remain curious about her doings this is where communication becomes important again. Instead of being aggressive and analyzing incorrectly, why not talk about how you feel about the situation over a cup of coffee instead? 

5. Too Possessive and Controlling 

I'm aware some men like to feel in control of the relationship and the master of most things. Which is fine... it really can be fine. Speaking from a personal view I like a dominant man who takes charge but it can get out of hand if done incorrectly. Try to understand where your limits are with her in the relationship. At the same time us women like to be in control of certain things also!  

6. Suddenly Became Boring

Where's that spark that was there in the start of the relationship? What a lot of people aren't aware of is that the spark that was used to ignite the fire of that relationship will be needed a few times throughout the entire relationship in order to keep that fire going! Try not to lose focus of that. Also new fun ideas every once in a while I'm pretty sure could be appreciated by her.

7. Inattentive

Pay attention! It can become so frustrating for her when she tries to reach for your attention and you don't turn an eye or an ear. Stay attentive when she talks to you and  try to compliment the little things she does here and there to catch your focus. 

8. Spending Your Time On What Matters The Least

Pause the video game a bit, close the social media apps and try to find out how her day was. As much as your spare time and self time matters, time with her matters too. It's the easiest way for a girl to drift away from the relationship when she feels as if you prioritize things over that shouldn't really matter. Spend time with your girl and make her feel worthy. 

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If you see your relationship going down hill or your girlfriend is slowly pulling away from you, then maybe those 8 pointers was probably what you needed to read. Do some self intervention and try to figure out what needs to be done with the help of this post. All it needs sometime in a relationship is a little self acceptance as the ability to recognize where you're going wrong. All the best!