Thursday 8 November 2018

What Women Look For In/On A Man The First Time They Meet. (Can This Affect Long Term Relationships?)

November 08, 2018 5 Comments
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 It’s a part of human behaviour that there is most often something(s) specific that we look for in or on a person of interest the very first time we meet. Personally, I know the things I look for when I meet a guy for the first time who could possibly become a partner. These things include; a warm personality, genuineness, a sense of life, a sense of humour and humbleness. Whereas sometimes I can just go with the flow and try not to notice too much and see what will pop out naturally from him towards me. 


 This week I got a bit curious to hear from 12 other women on my Instagram what they also look for in or on a guy the first time they meet. So I set up an Instagram poll asking the question and their responses came as follows.


*I have decided to keep these women anonymous in respect of their privacy.


Girl #1: ”How generous and sincere he is”

Girl #2: ”Sense of Humor”

Girl #3: ”Compassion, his ability to care for the people around him”

Girl #4: ”Proper teeth”

Girl #5: ”Ambitionnnn”

Girl #6: ”I listen to the way he addresses me and his attire”

Girl #7: ”How he carries himself and how he speaks”

Girl #8: ”$$$$”

Girl #9: ”Consistency. If he’s consistent with his words, way or                    
            actions”

Girl #10: ”Looks and dress of sense”

Girl #11: ”Their intelligence, life goals and ambition”

Girl #12: ”Potential”


Related Article: 15 WaysTo Know That A Guy Likes You 

 
Now these are all great answers. Everyone has their own values and what they wish for in or on a man. As you can tell from these answers some girls are more on the physical side, some on the personality side and on the monetary side. 
 
 The Point of this post is to highlight that most often what women tend to look for in/on a man is most often the result of the type of relationship made with that man. A humorous man forms a humorous relationship. An ambitious man encourages an ambitious relationship. And if you entered a relationship with a man solely because of looks then more than likely you’ll end up with a cute man who probably does not have or know how to bring anything else to the table.


Related Article: Does ThePerfect Relationship Exists?


 For a fulfilling and long-lasting happy relationship, try to search for your soul mate the way you would probably search for the perfect pair of heels that suits YOU. One that fits, one that’s comfortable that you feel like you love and could wear everyday. 



As the quote says

First Impressions Lasts Forever

A quote we must keep in mind.




 
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Sunday 4 November 2018

How To Get Rid Of Dry Skin Naturally In Winter

November 04, 2018 2 Comments
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Winter is upon us and oh how I am not anticipating the chappy lips,  dry skin and scalp that comes with it! We all know how frustrating this can be. The constant itching and dry, dead skin falling off when you itch, uhk! 

 Most times we try to combat the dryness with an easy fix by running to the supermarket to grab some commercialized lotion. Sad thing is, most often the chemicals that are inside these products often tends to dry out the skin even more, leaving you more frustrated and your skin becomes scaly.

 Sometimes depending on how dry your skin is, you may also turn to a dermatologist/doctor for help and she/he would prescribe a cream or gel to fix this matter. Yes those can work too, but what happens when you run out  and have to visit the doctor again to just get a prescription for a cream etc. It all just seems so daunting and a little costly.

 Well, I am here to help you solve dry skin problems in a healthy and possibly cheaper way.

Using natural things for the body is never a wrong choice and you may be surprised how they work more effectively than the store bought cancerous chemicals. Here are my tips..



Raw Shea Butter
 It’s almost as if I could write only shea butter as the only recommendation because this stuff is GOOD! It is best to purchase unrefined raw shea butter thats unscented as you know that is more organic. Shea Butter is a good by if you ask me as it's possible to use as it is and can also be used in different ways including in your hair. 

 organic shea butter



Organic Glycerin
 You then want to add some Glycerin to the Shea Butter to kick up a well hydrating mix. There are organic glycerin on the market like Sky Organics Vegetable Glycerine and I’m pretty sure you can find others of your interest by just browsing the web or visiting local organic stores. Note: You can use a mixer to combine all the ingredients with the Shea Butter.

Organic Glycerin


Olive Oil
 Now you want to grab some organic olive oil or another oil of your choice like almond oil for example. The purpose of the oil is to act as a sealant, which means it keeps all the good moisture from the shea butter and glycerine into the skin and not just on the surface of the skin. Having an oil base is essential.



Essential Oil
 We make it a bit more fun with using an essential oil. Oils like lavender oil, lemongrass oil, rose oil, peppermint oil etc. The essential oil is to add a little natural scent/fragrance to the whole mix and to give a relaxing feeling. This is totally optional.



Rose Water
 Another option is rose water which is scented water made from rose petals, if you want to option out of an essential oil.



 Waahla! You have the perfect natural body cream to get rid of dry skin naturally during winter. Healthy and long lasting all at once. But among all this, remember to stay hydrated also. Drink lots of water during the day. If you're not hydrated on the inside the odds are thin that your skin would show any improvement.

 Give it a try and let me know in the comments how it went for you or if you have ever tried a similar combination and how it worked out.



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