What Women Look For In/On A Man The First Time They Meet. (Can This Affect Long Term Relationships?)
Love, Life, Relationships
November 08, 2018
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It’s a part of human behaviour that there is most often something(s) specific that we look for in or on a person of interest the very first time we meet. Personally, I know the things I look for when I meet a guy for the first time who could possibly become a partner. These things include; a warm personality, genuineness, a sense of life, a sense of humour and humbleness. Whereas sometimes I can just go with the flow and try not to notice too much and see what will pop out naturally from him towards me.
This week
I got a bit curious to hear from 12 other women on my Instagram what they also
look for in or on a guy the first time they meet. So I set up an Instagram poll
asking the question and their responses came as follows.
*I have decided to keep these women anonymous in respect of
their privacy.
Girl #1:
”How generous and sincere he is”
Girl #2:
”Sense of Humor”
Girl #3:
”Compassion, his ability to care for the people around him”
Girl #4:
”Proper teeth”
Girl #5:
”Ambitionnnn”
Girl #6:
”I listen to the way he addresses me and his attire”
Girl #7:
”How he carries himself and how he speaks”
Girl #8:
”$$$$”
Girl #9:
”Consistency. If he’s consistent with his words, way or
actions”
Girl #10:
”Looks and dress of sense”
Girl #11:
”Their intelligence, life goals and ambition”
Girl #12:
”Potential”
Now these
are all great answers. Everyone has their own values and what they wish for in or
on a man. As you can tell from these answers some girls are more on the
physical side, some on the personality side and on the monetary side.
The Point
of this post is to highlight that most often what women tend to look for in/on
a man is most often the result of the type of relationship made with that man.
A humorous man forms a humorous relationship. An ambitious man encourages an
ambitious relationship. And if you entered a relationship with a man solely
because of looks then more than likely you’ll end up with a cute man who probably
does not have or know how to bring anything else to the table.
For a fulfilling
and long-lasting happy relationship, try to search for your soul mate the way
you would probably search for the perfect pair of heels that suits YOU. One
that fits, one that’s comfortable that you feel like you love and could wear
everyday.
As the quote says
First Impressions Lasts Forever